First of all…I do have faith.
I do believe that we, as a country, will come out of this funk, and we will come out stronger, more united and ready to rock. BUT….there is some serious trouble brewing for our elders, and the kettle is whistling loud, long and clear. Many of you may have already read or heard me speak about the waiting list for Meals on Wheels in America. HALF of all U.S. cities have a waiting list, now…and there are 80 million boomers coming round the bend. We’re talking 12,000 people a day turning 60!!!
This is why I fuss and spit so much about nonprofit evolution. Folks think (as noted in a past post) that I am against food banks. Again…just the opposite, but I hate it when groups aren’t looking out and seeing the future coming. The entire design of the street level anti-hunger movement is based on the people we served 20 years ago, NOT for those who are about to show up in numbers that will crush our capacity. But hey…the food thing is just the beginning. If you look at the entire issue of aging in America….just about every which way you turn, everyone who should be shouting seems to be asleep at this wheel. Stories are appearing in the news that really (REALLY) offer ample evidence that we are simply not preparing for the reality of how many folks are going to live to be 80-85-even 90, but who are unprepared financially to cover their nut alone…and neither are their families. More worrisome is how equally unprepared we are socially to engage, include and respect our elders for the world they helped to build.
Here are two examples:
In Sunday’s Washington Post there was a story about the Seigler family, and how the Madoff meltdown has totally messed up their family’s finances. These are people who really planned. They saved, they scrimped…and now it’s all gone. Now what?
And in today’s Post comes another signal, as Sunrise Senior Living, one of the country’s largest assisted living providers, considers bankruptcy protection. While the company reports that nothing will affect the folks who live in their facilities, it’s still troubling. Particularly when you look at larger trends, including the escalating costs of elder care, the quality of care that is provided and the number of providers (both for-profit, and not-for-profit) that are in rough waters or opting out of the biz altogether.
The systems we employ to care, feed, engage and respect our elders is falling apart….literally. It’s part of our country’s decaying infrastructure. Call me a grandstander, call me Henny P, call me whatever you want…but realize that this is scary accurate.
I ask you….actually, I implore you…read your newspapers. Look at your community. Ask friends with older parents. I know that MUCH is on thin ice—but the issue of our elders is so huge, and so sad and SO wrong. They are us, only they are there sooner. Realize that we owe them more than this. Also realize how much we have to gain as a society if we channel their energy and experiences and keep them contributing till the day they pass. There are amazing efforts already going on all over the country–just too few. Let’s ramp it UP.
I will be working with Congressman Jim McGovern (D-MA) who leads the Congressional Hunger Caucus to begin to trumpet this issue, and will keep you posted. Stand ready.
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